fraud

I think someone has accessed my phone and all my accounts remotely.. I do not work or go to school never set up a samsung account, yet I see app usage and questionable actions, why does my phone have a special rom, how did it happen, can it be changed back to the stock rom? I'm missing settings catagories that would allow me to remove fraudulant enrollments to enterprise and MDM. I'm missing other settings..I do not have a multiple user setting, I cannot access system files I do not recieve notifications, also things are done in different languages. 

and older email accounts that I deactivated have been reactivated, what iis going on?? email I delete end up back in my inbox?

** I'm a stay at home grandmother with an anxiety /panic disorder, that is getting worse because of it all **

surfing the internet helped keep my mind busy, now I have panic attacks about the phone. My husband says Im causing the problems, I'm not.

I have done factory resets that change nothing I changed my email accounts, passwords, phone numbersesim and physical sims, he has bought me 3 phones, even changed carriers, yet it continues. I'm afraid our home network may be causing it or God forbid maybe my husband, he is a common denominater..how else could it happen on each of my phones? he is a tester and he has learned some code writing (which he hides from me)and he has different work management products with his jobs, I do not want to accuse anyone ecspecialky him, but could he be manipulating my phone, we figjt about it and he will not let me talk about it because he says Im making it happen, and he is sick of hearing about it.

please help me, I just want it to stop.

Should I delete my accounts?

Can you permanently delete my account? 

I do not know what to do.

sherry armstrong

thank you so much